In response to my recent post on intuitive writing on Medium (here), some readers replied that they didn't believe I was a shy kid, given my prankster persona.
Perhaps writing and performing helped make me more outgoing, which is a good thing since spending too much time stuck inside my mind is a bad idea.
Anyway, people often mistake me for an extrovert , but my natural inclination is to turn inward to process the real gone world. Being an introvert can sometimes feel like swimming against the current.
Oops There Goes Another Introvert
Society tends to reward extroversion — those who speak the loudest command the most attention. But there’s power in introversion, a strength that’s quiet but impactful.
Being an intuitive introvert, I find strength in solitude and a deeper connection to myself and the world.
Introverts are frequently misunderstood. People may see introversion as shyness, social awkwardness, or even aloofness. But being an introvert isn't about being scared to speak up; it's where we draw our energy from.
I feel more comfortable and energized in quieter, more introspective settings, rather than in bustling social gatherings. For me, a quiet evening with a book or a deep conversation with a close friend is far more rejuvenating than any party.
Listening Intently
In a society that prizes speaking up, or talking out of school anonymously from behind the cloak of social media, the power of listening is often undervalued. Intuitive introverts are natural listeners, keen observers of the world around us.
This attentiveness allows us to notice what others might overlook, giving us unique insights into people and situations. It's a different kind of influence, one that doesn't need to shout to be felt.
Reflecting Deeply
Reflection is another strength of an intuitive introvert. We thrive on processing our experiences deeply, often finding connections and meanings that are not immediately apparent. Doing so can lead to rich inner lives, full of creativity and insight.
Introverts draw their creativity from the inside out, whether in writing, art, or other forms of expression. Our reflective nature allows us to see beyond the surface, exploring ideas and possibilities that escape those who are always on the go.
Navigating an Extroverted World
Living as an introvert in an extroverted world is not without its challenges. The constant pressure to be more outgoing can be exhausting, and the value of being still is often overlooked
But it's survival of the fittest and I learned early on it was either adapt or be singled out.
Since being a tough guy wasn't an option, I developed a prankster persona to get people to laugh. My offbeat sense of humor was a defense mechanism that got me through my school years relatively unscathed.
Embracing Introversion
At the end of the day, I'm a double agent: an introvert in an extroverted world. But embracing introversion starts with knowing my limitations, when to retreat, setting boundaries, and finding ways to recharge.
It also means bringing my unique strengths to bear -- empathy, insight, and quiet resolve. These qualities are needed now more than ever in a world that never stops yapping.
Bring on the Quiet
The true power of being an intuitive introvert lies in the realization that quiet does not mean silent. While people often overlook the quiet, there is strength in stillness, wisdom in listening, and profound creativity in reflection.
It's in the quiet moments, the deep conversations, and the thoughtful reflections that I often find my creative inspiration.
So here's to embracing the power of quiet, finding strength in solitude, and thriving in the real gone world.
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